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Lynnie 's journey
 What is Perfectionism? Perfectionism is defined as a meticulous drive to attain excellence. A perfectionist is one who has this characteristic. 'Perfectionism' is a most prevalent belief in our civilization. Notice that I used the word 'belief'. Everywhere in this world, perfectionism is regarded as good and desirable while imperfection is deemed as bad or negative. Everybody wants everybody else to be perfect. Bosses want their employees to be flawless on the job. Parents want their kids to be the best. Perfectionists want their work and themselves to be perfect. Since it is so strongly regarded as being positive, is Perfectionism really an absolute or universal value? In my opinion, it isn't. To me, it is relative and means different things to different people. Perfection is an idea. It is an idea of a perceived ideal state of affair. However, things are the way they are. For every circumstances, the truth is what it is at each instance. Perfection and imperfection are therefore merely attached values. I am not suggesting that perfectionism is not good. I am suggesting that perhaps perfectionism can cast a controlling net over our expression of happiness. One can reach the required goal with or without being a perfectionist. To be a perfectionist, on the other hand, leaves very little room for one to accept and love oneself unconditionally when a desired goal is not met. And when our desires are not met, we feel unhappy or cannot be fully satisfied. However, the truth is we only have this moment to live in. By being perfectionist, our mind will be forever planning and thinking about the future or lamenting about what went wrong in the past. Because of these tendencies, many perfectionists are unable to feel satisfaction because in their perception they never seem to do things good enough to warrant that feeling of contentment. From this, we can see a paradox of life. That is: "How can one have perfect peace, self-love and joy when one is a perfectionist? " Thank you for reading. Email me here - Lynniecrandon@gmail.com Archives March 2021 My Ebook and Paperback book are available in Amazon, and Free to read in Kindle Unlimited. This book is dedicated to my Family and friends. :)My handmade Mug designsMY WIFE IS HOTTER THAN MY COFFEE
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